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Do It Your Way: The Secret of Self Discipline

In order to achieve your future vision, you must have self discipline. With the proper approach, its easier to take directed action, regardless of your present emotional, psychological or physical state. It can be more difficult at certain times than others. That lifestyle can even seem unreachable, but it’s important we remember that no matter what, it’s still possible. And it’s all up to you! I’m sure there are numerous qualities you like about yourself, that you’re surely proud of, since they directly contribute to your personal success and achievements. If there aren’t – stop to think of some…I’ll wait. Now, there’s also one simple time-saving hack that could bring you more self-confidence and abundance in everything you do. That productivity hack is mastering self discipline. Self discipline is a type of behavior that is learned through persistent practice. It all stems from a choice that you consciously must make. Therefore, to unlock the mysterious chest of self discipline, you only need the right key. The greatest secret for achieving this state of mind is this: don’t give up and be sure to forgive yourself when things don’t go according to your plan. It is never easy to establish a whole new way of thinking. So, don’t be too hard on yourself. When you make a mistake, just move on and try your best not to repeat it. If you don’t continually move forward, unwelcome emotions will arise, like anger and frustration, and emotional triggers only create obstacles on your journey. Master Self Discipline in the modern world. In today’s world of technology, when it’s all too easy to get distracted by so many different things, you need focus to acquire self discipline. Try to turn off your phone for a few hours, don’t check your e-mails more than a few times per day, or throw away the food you’re trying to avoid. These little things can really help to keep your mind focused and on-task. Ditch all the bad influences and remove possible temptations. Realize, too, that you can take a break, just make sure it’s a short one. For example, if you’re dieting, then choose one day in a week to have a reasonable sized piece of chocolate cake; if you’re trying to save some money, spend a little bit less each time you go to the mall, or set a spending limit. Strict rules that you cannot or will not follow will do you no good. Besides, you will feel refreshed and at ease when you have a recess. After that little pause, you can get back in the saddle quickly and efficiently. Finally, don’t postpone. If there’s something you need to do, do it right away! This will change your routine and habits immediately. If you have to do something, and put it off because you really don’t want to, you will only create unnecessary suffering continuing to think about it. Procrastination is your biggest enemy, and your discipline can completely fall apart once you start your own waiting lists. You don’t have to sacrifice all your pleasures to achieve self discipline. Find a balance, and keep your mind clear, with positive thoughts. Learn to forgive yourself. But still, create a plan for commitment as well as for discipline and order. Start where you are… Work within your personal boundaries so that this new lifestyle will last. It defeats the point to live an insanely rigid lifestyle if you will only quit after a week. Maybe for now you can only handle one or two new disciplines per week before you run off chasing more freedom. Everyone has their own styles. Stay true to you. I don’t want you to start waking up at 4am every day if it isn’t conducive to the future that you are visualizing for yourself. It’s entirely natural to be truly satisfied with everything you have, and still desire more. But, you will need self-discipline if you want to create a lasting change in your life. Keep up the great work. ~Wishing you success,Drew

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How A Flexible Definition Of Success Creates More Fulfillment

I get this question a lot given the name of my business (Alphadog Success). But it’s also something that I make sure to ask every person I speak with when working in a coaching or mentorship role. In everything I do, success is my goal. The word, “success,” holds special meaning for me. When I am successful, I accomplish my intended purpose in a given situation. When I try to do my best job at work and I achieve that, then I am successful. Although success sometimes eludes me, my intent in life is to succeed each time it is within my power. Trying times occur in my life, just as it does for everyone else and I accept this fact. Yet, I also know that I put forth my best efforts in even the toughest of circumstances. In conversations with my spouse, I always attempt to exert my attention, patience, and best communication skills to arrive at a successful exchange. She is very emotional, and I am much more intellectual. So, we speak different languages, and sometimes it can be more difficult for us to convey seemingly simple concepts to one another. With my dogs (and cats), I strive to have a positive impact and demonstrate understanding and loving care toward them at all times. They don’t have the same perspective of the world that we do, and it takes a lot of self-restraint sometimes to not get frustrated or annoyed with their behavior. As the workplace presents its own special challenges, I accept there may be times when I lack complete control over how things proceed. However, I still make success my goal…always. Sometimes, my view of what success looks like in a situation changes. But this fact shows my flexibility and reflects that the meaning of success can vary, depending on the specific details of a situation. It is important that you allow for some flexibility in your plan and your vision of success. Don’t be so hard on yourself if things don’t work out exactly as planned. Have you ever proposed to a significant other? And did it go as planned? The reality is that something that emotionally charged will rarely go as you envisioned it would. But as long as you are true to yourself and your relationship, then that doesn’t make it any less special. Today, regardless of the circumstances, success is my goal. Life is good, largely due to my daily efforts to succeed. I’ve come up with a few question for you to ask yourself, and I want you to really take the time to reflect on these questions enough to draft an answer. And make sure to record your answer! I don’t care if it’s written or typed, but until you get those words out of your head – this is just like any other thought. Self-Reflection Questions: Everything starts with your Mind. If you aren’t in control of your mind, you will never be able to control your success. Click the banner below to learn more about my free Alphadog Awareness Mindset Mini-Class or visit: https://alphadogsuccess.com/mini-class

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How To Overcome The Top 7 Mental Blocks for Success

Introduction Often, the biggest barrier to achieving success is not external factors but oneself. Overcoming these self-imposed barriers is crucial for personal and professional growth. Let’s explore and expand on the seven common mental roadblocks and provide strategies for overcoming them. 1. Doubt The cycle of doubt can be paralyzing and self-perpetuating. When you doubt your abilities, it’s challenging to gain others’ confidence in your capabilities. How to Overcome: Work on building your self-confidence. Create a list of your strengths and achievements to refer to whenever doubt creeps in. This self-affirmation can fortify your belief in your abilities, making it easier to persuade others to believe in you too. 2. Fear of Failure Fear of failure can halt progress and innovation. Many view failure negatively, whereas it should be seen as a learning opportunity. How to Overcome: Redefine your perception of failure. View it as a mentor, guiding you to explore alternative paths to success. Understanding that failure often precedes success can change your approach and make you more resilient. 3. Fear of Success Some fear the change and perceived negatives success might bring, including the loss of comfort zones or assumed personality shifts. How to Overcome: Challenge these fears by visualizing the positive impacts of success on your life. Understand that success does not inherently change your core values or personality, and any changes can be controlled and directed positively. 4. Lack of Self-Belief Without believing in yourself, achieving your goals becomes a daunting task as you lack the necessary motivation and drive. How to Overcome: Regularly set and achieve small goals. This practice will build your confidence and reinforce your belief in your abilities to tackle larger objectives. 5. Getting Too Emotional Excessive emotion can cloud judgment and lead to poor decisions. How to Overcome: Practice mindfulness or other emotional regulation techniques. These tools can help you to remain calm and think logically in challenging situations. 6. Making Things Too Complicated Overcomplication and overthinking can stall progress, causing simple problems to appear larger and more intricate than they are. How to Overcome: Focus on breaking down problems into manageable parts and seek simple solutions first. Remember that the most effective solution is often the most straightforward one. 7. Thinking Inside the Box Limited, conventional thinking can prevent the discovery of innovative solutions to problems. How to Overcome: Encourage creativity and unconventional thinking. Regularly practice brainstorming sessions, and don’t dismiss any idea as too “out there.” Often the most unusual ideas can lead to the most innovative solutions. Conclusion Breaking down these mental blocks is essential for paving the path to your success. Implement these strategies to overcome personal barriers, ensuring a smoother, more confident journey towards achieving your goals and aspirations.

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